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He kind of stands around and leers at people sometimes, and goes into the stalls like he's looking for something, without actually using the facilities.

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It's completely baffling and a little unnerving. He's probably 5'9", and either African-American or just African--very dark-skinned. He frequently wears a golf cap of some sort, and also a vest. And he tends to have a backpack on. He could be anywhere from 20 to If I had to guess I'd say something. The most recent weird experience was last week. I was finishing up my business in a stall when he pops into the bathroom. At this point I don't know it's him. I'm tucking my shirt in and am just about ready to step out, so I've unlocked the stall door.

He pushes it open to see if anyone's in there.

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Clearly I am, so he walks to the other end of the bathroom. When I get out he's looking around in the other stalls--in a manner not quite like that of someone scouting out a stall so they can poop.

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He's muttering to himself a little bit. After a minute of this while I'm washing my hands he goes into the stall I was in. From that point on I can't be sure what he's doing, but he's walking around in there for sure. I get outta there.

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I'm open to the possibility that this is all just some big coincidence. Maybe it is a big coincidence, and he thinks I'm the bathroom creeper. Or maybe he's simply some mentally ill Berkeley resident. But I don't think so--something definitely seems off about this guy.

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Something sexually predatory, even. Just looking to see if others' experiences confirm or disconfirm my own. I just had my first run in with this guy on Friday. I have never seen any "Cal stu They have trimmed away the bus I don't know what is the basis Random Popularity Last Updated.


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