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She would call me as soon as I got out of work, and after a few minutes I'd come up with an excuse to hang up. No matter what, she would always call minutes later and I'd come back to a million texts if I didn't answer. She disappears for a few weeks, I figure she knows I'm not interested. I get a text from her about a month later saying how she's sorry for being pushy. She also mentioned about how she tried to kill herself after her current bf dumped her for being crazy, go figure and she got commited to a mental hospital. She tried to kill herself again in the loony bin, and pissed all over the floor once they put her in observation.
She asked if I was still down to hang out after that. I deleted my profile and blocked her number. It's always fun when you show up to the date, see she looks nothing like her profile, and instantly know the next 3 hours are going to be awful. Off Tinder though the girl was actually awesome and we had coffee and sang in the car.
Of course, at the end she said she was one month away from actually being I was on OKCupid for a while and been on a few dates, even consistently dating a few people when I met K. K was a tall, handsome guy, owned his own business and seemed like a great dude. We lived in different states, but he visited for business often and spent time with me around that.
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We had gone on maybe dates total. After two months, he comes down to spend the weekend and at lunch on Sunday afternoon, the conversation turns to the future. Suddenly, and without any previous discussion, K has decided he wants to buy a house in my state, wants me to quit my job, and wants us to get married and start having kids. I tried to steer the conversation elsewhere and reminded him that I had said I wasn't really interested in anything serious, etc when we first started talking.
He wanted me to think about it and reminded me I'd never have to think about money he was insanely rich etc. We parted as usual, normal kiss goodbye, "I'll call you when I get home" kind of thing. Two years later, I'm now married to an amazing man who I met on okcupid! K had been arrested for the fifth time in the last two years for assault and battery.
He had threatened, then pistol whipped his current girlfriend in the face and tried to stab her. Went out on a date with a girl from OK Cupid. We seemed to have a lot in common and hit it off well. The next day I have about 50 text messages when I wake up from her about our future together, our kids and where we should have our honeymoon etc. I am not against marriage or even kids, but "Will you marry me? Incidentally, I eventually deleted that OKcupid account because she kept creating new accounts and messaging me All my online dates have been horror stories. This time I will recount the story of "The Asian".
I've never dated an Asian Before this was my first time. After thinking she was normal for an extended period of time I decided to take her out on a date.
The whole evening she was making cat noises. I shit you not cat noises. Now I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt and maybe she was nervous. But the very next morning she sends me a text with a cat emote and the word meow. I even Ignored that for the sake of she had huge boobs and we dated one more time not only did the cat noises continue but she climbed on top of me removed her shirt and starting rubbing her armpit hair on me whilst doing the cat noises.
I met a guy from OKC for coffee one evening. He was cute and seemed nice. Coffee went fine so we decided to go across town for a drink. He followed me to my apartment I told him it was my friend's place Everything was cool but then he started touching me around my neck for literally no reason, got weirdly all up in my personal space and I ended up paying for all of our drinks. I went into the bathroom and called a guy friend to ask him how I should politely end the evening. In the meantime, one of my girlfriends texted me to see how everything was going. I hung up with guy friend, thought I opened up girlfriend's text message and responded "This is torture.
How do I get out of here". Threw my phone in my purse and went back out to the table with a smile on my face Funny thing is that I begged him to just leave me there because I deserved it and he wouldn't. I spent the next 30 minutes in a car with him while I awkwardly apologized. He still tried to kiss me and he waited for me get in my car and leave so he could make sure that I made it home safely.
Then he called me the next day and asked me out again. I went on a date with a girl whose mum had died suddenly a few weeks before. She didn't mention this in the pre-date chatting. Well within 10 minutes of meeting her, she's crying. I felt awful for her and could understand how tough she must have been having it. We walked and talked for maybe 3 hours.
By the end she was all smiles and thanked me for giving her a brief moment to not dwell.
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We met one more time after this but I new I didn't want to try and build a relationship with someone in such a fragile state. Nice girl, shit situation. I had another date with a girl who uttered the words "it's so nice to talk to someone educated". She looked down on everyone and seemed like a fairly awful person. I should have bailed but instead engaged arsehole mode I went out with this guy for a single time, then buggered off to Prague for a week with my mate but kept chatting to him. We arranged to meet up when I got back and he turned up with a tattoo based on one of my modelling pictures on his bicep.
First ever tattoo at 37 or 38 I'm a good 15 years younger too. So I have this really bad habit of getting way too drunk and writing way too involved messages to girls on okc. Some of the early ones are a zenith of cringe meets epic, so much so that I've deleted the account, though it would have made an amazing book or blog. It reads much like Overqualified meets Tucker Max though without the high sexual content. I've since toned down considerably. Recent messages are pretty well composed, but then one weird part sneaks in there right at the end. One girl looked nice and had listed Stranger in a Strange Land first in her list of books.
I'd put together a nice introduction, referenced a few of her interests, and it was a good message! But to really seal the deal I finished with:. I went to this girls dorm room, her roommate was gone. We talked for a little, made out, we did some other things, etc. No sex that time. Well, we were lying down afterward, and discovered through conversation that we had some mutual friends. I didn't exactly want those mutual friends to know what I was doing it's complicated. So, I kindly asked her, "please don't tell any of our friends about this, I'd like to keep it between us.
I was freaked out by her. So I quickly shot up and said "I need to leave. She immediately pushed me down and held me there. She was a sturdy girl. It took a minute, but she let me up- and promptly went and blocked the door. I talked her down, and was able to leave presently after that. I was still very shaken. I shaved my face before leaving for my first date with a girl.
When I got there she had more of a moustache than me.
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Just ask them about things on their profile and be genuinely interested. Tbh, trying to sound clever makes you sound very It's usually more awkward than clever in my experience. Being asked about my favorite beer from a 5 is more likely to get a response than a "bonjour! Sorry bout the random French! What would you do if you were stranded on an island? And yes, I've gotten that message verbatim. I set up a date with a gal from OKC.
Showed up, turns out she brought her friend. I sat down next to gal, and her friend sat across from us. Friend was wearing a low-cut shirt with a giant dragonfly tattoo across her tits. I tried reaaaaally hard to concentrate on looking into Friend's eyes when I talked to her, but date fail anyway. I had so many bad dates off POF that it's hard to pick one, but I will go with my very first date.
Had been talking to a guy and we agreed to meet. He told me he was trying to lose weight and was probably about 50 lbs overweight. I was inside the restaurant and he called me when he got there. I looked out the window and saw him getting out of his car. He was at least lbs overweight. I was able to get past his weight and we dated about 3 months. In that whole time, we never held hands or kissed.
I finally ended it and told him I didn't think we were compatible because there was no physical contact us at all. So, a week later, he calls and wants us to be friends with benefits You can't hold my hand or kiss, but you just want sex. After that guy, each guy got worse. I have now taken 1 year off from dating, just to get the ick feeling off from me from all the liars, scam artists, and jerks I attracted during my 3 years of dating from POF. You live and you learn. I'm in college on OKC I get a massage from this guy, and it turns out that we knew each other from high school, he'd been a senior when I was a sophmore and we'd had a photoshop class together.
So we chill on the couch and he proceeds to try and basically steal second base and imply that hey, he lives in a studio, and his bed is Right There, I mean we could go over there and be comfortable. I played dumb "but then we couldn't see the movie" I said and he huffed and went back to tit-squeezing.
I say something like "I think I should home now" as soon as I get up he bursts into these blubbery awful tears and he's trying to tell me something about how it's been so long and could I just stay? I walked home in the rain, called my sister as I did so in case he followed me, and took what amounts to basically a rape shower to wash the feel of his hands off me. I've been thinking about it today because I just got back last night from a second date with a guy who seemed like he was mad at me and decided against a third date for my "not being much of a risk-taker" and I assume it's because I didn't want to go back to his apartment after our first date.
I got stood up. We were messaging each other for a while and then when we agreed to meet up, she didn't show. Tried texting her, no response. When I got home to check my OKC, she deactivated her profile. Yeah, I'm not too upset about it. I mean, I think about it, and it is pretty scary to meet up with someone that you met online. It stung a little, but I was able to move on with ease.
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Plenty of fish- girl invites me back to smoke. Tells me the roads are bad so be careful. I took the advice like any guy would, with a grain of salt. Ended up getting stuck at the bottom of the hill. Her roommate had to come out and help me get out of the snow. Needless to say, we didn't speak after. Another, girl was 19 and Hot. On our date she interrogated me on what I would do if my friends, random people hit on her while I was in the ocean, on a boat or randomly.
She had a lot of jersey shore in her. Why didn't you talk to her? No, because I did exactly what she warned me not to do. So I'm assuming that's the reason she never called me back. PoF regular user in the summer of I went out with quite a few women who turned out to be bat shit crazy. I stopped seeing her immediately afterwards. She would harass me whenever I wasn't messaging her or skyping with her, was jealous of every female friend I had on social media and threatened to kill herself regularly. She broke up with me at 2am one night via text message. This one had potential. She was smart, funny and didn't care that I didn't have a car because she liked driving more than being driven around by a boyfriend.
We went on two awesome dates, but we got in an argument when she told me she was saving herself for marriage. I was okay with waiting, but I didn't plan on getting married right away, especially at 21, and having a physical relationship is important to me. We talked about it a few times but she still wanted me to wait till marriage, so we decided to break up. I knew this was a red flag, so I asked her who she was fucking on the side, and she admitted it was two guys, so I promptly ended the relationship.
We went on a date in the park, ate dinner and watched a movie at her place and decided we liked each other's company. In a few weeks we were dating and we've been together ever since. I don't really see how 4 is crazy. I mean, I don't agree with her re: That's about as rational as breakups get.
I think the premarital sex aversion must be an american thing. I've actually never encountered someone in my life over about 20 who's been serious about it. Not being snarky, serious observation. I met a girl who had been dating online via PoF. I met her thru a mutual friend, so hopefully this story still applies Her friend has been talking her up, showed me a pic, and she seemed cute enough. It's like she took a hundred selfies and found ONE that made her look possibly attractive.
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I didn't want to be rude, so I stayed and had a drink with her. We were getting along well enough, so we ended up staying for 3 drinks. I didn't find her attractive, but she seemed nice and we had some things in common. She told me about her experiences on PoF and how guys were just looking to get into her pants. I assured her I'm not like that I had no interest in getting in her pants, although I could probably fit 2 of me in them. So, I paid the tab and we're fixin to leave. She knew the Jeep in the parking lot was mine, and she parked right next to it so we walk to our cars together.
We chat for a bit longer in the parking lot.. I'm really not feeling it, but again I hate to be rude so I'm all "umm yeah sure.. I'm leaning up against the front of my jeep, and she comes up to me and leans into me like face to face. I'm kinda taken by surprise, and not sure what to do. So I put my arms around her as far as they would go, anyway and give her a short hug. She looks up at me, and just like in a movie, everything is suddenly in slow motion.. I really hope I didn't have a look of disgust on my face.
So I kiss her.. She's still right in my face, and I'm not sure how to get her to back off. Fortunately she got the idea and took a step back. She kinda hinted around about having nothing to do for the rest of the night and going home alone, and I'm like "well, have a good night" and got in the Jeep. I think I kinda shocked her, as she stood there for a split second probably thinking "did he just turn down an offer for sex? Anyway, she gets in her car and I leave. She texted me a few hours later..
I wanted to ask you to come home with me but I was nervous hehehe" or something to that extent. I didn't reply, and about 15 minutes later she texts again "had a really great time, hope to see you again". And it kept going on.. I didn't reply until the next morning, disregarding all her efforts and just said "yeah I had a good time too.. She texted back immediately, asking what I was doing today and wanting to get together and I didn't reply. She sent a few more texts and the last one was something like "ok well I guess you're busy, text me later" and that was the last I heard from her.
If she's mentioning guys in her pants, it's you she's thinking about in them. I can only imagine that she acted the same way with other guys she met online. And I can imagine that some guys would have taken her up on the offer. So, after talking to a girl for about two weeks, texting, and stuff, I go to pick her up and get dinner and a movie.
Her personality was fine, didn't seem clingy, didn't come off like she was crazy at all. I tell myself, "not gonna be superficial, gonan give her a chance. She wanted to go to this palce that had the best french fries ever Not me but a friend of mine. She couldn't quite place what was wrong with him. After the second date, he offered to drive her home.
Log in or sign up in seconds. Get an ad-free experience with special benefits, and directly support Reddit. This girl and I messaged back and forth for a while. Got along pretty well. We decided to meet up about half way between both our hometowns. We basically sit in the car for two hours insulting one another. She calls me short, I call her flat chested.
Afterward, we say our goodbyes and I head back home. We chat via text for about a week after that, but soon realize that even though the sex was good, we were not compatible as friends. Never heard from her again. Girl and I had been texting, talking on the phone, even Skyped once it was dark and hard to see. She actually had a great personality and we hit it off. Her profile pictures were of a gorgeous girl, always posing seductively.
She told me to meet her at her hotel room at the Adolphus in Dallas, TX very nice, very expensive. When she opened the door, I was speechless, this was NOT the girl in the pictures at all. It looked like she had eaten the girl in the picture! How could someone lie to me like that? I start talking to this girl who is cute and can keep a conversation flowing. We agree to meet up for a trivia night at a local restaurant. I show up about 15 minutes early and sit at the bar to drink before she arrives. When she arrives, she shows up with her best friend, which is no big deal to me.
The weird thing is the girl I am there to meet shows up in a mini skirt and has a prosthetic leg! Not one of the ones shaped like a leg, a metal pole! I play it cool, I think, and am open-minded so I stick around. Turns out she is a HUGE alcoholic which is how she lost her leg and she is pretty much drinking 3 mixed drinks to my one beer.
Her friend that showed up with her also happens to have a date showing up. The girls end up ignoring us guys and they are having their own conversations, so me and other dude end up talking sports stuff and end up getting along pretty good. We all end up going to a dive bar down the street after dinner for more drinks because its 2 for 1 night.
Night ends there, and I agree to give this girl one more date on the off chance that it was just a bad night for the girl and she was nervous or whatever. Second date was even worse than the first date. She gets wasted and keeps accusing me of looking at other women and is hitting on other people while we are out. I leave and never contact her again. Get my dick sucked both times. The will to act. Seems like the only thing it's good for is sex, and you'll be lucky if you find anyone worth doing that with. I've had barely any luck.
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The first photo is creepy. You look like a serial killer. Change these things if you want a girl to message you that doesn't have an unconscious wish to end her miserable life. Originally Posted by conceptions. Originally Posted by mikeg Originally Posted by Tsudo. Originally Posted by DadsNewBoyfrend.